Fisting

AKA:

  • fistfucking
  • ff
  • handballing
  • red.

Hanky code

Red, worn:

  • on the left (wants to fist)
  • on the right (wants to be fisted)
  • round the neck (both gives and takes a fist).

What is fisting?

Fisting involves putting a hand, sometimes forearm, into another man’s arse, occasionally going up as far as the lower (sigmoid) colon. It doesn’t mean clenching your fist into a ball and pushing it into someone’s arse hole, which is usually not possible. Instead fingers are kept pointing straight and close together, a fist shape only made once inside the arse.

Punch fucking is inserting a clenched fist in and out of the arse hole. Due to the difficulties and potential dangers of doing this it’s best left to advanced fisters.

Double fisting means putting two hands inside the arse.

Piston fucking or jackhammering is when one man puts his dick and hand inside the other man’s arse, then wanks himself off inside the guy’s arse.

Chariot racing is when one fister fists two men (one hand in each arse).

The 2006 Gay Men’s Sex Survey found that in the previous 12 months 13% of men had fisted or been fisted. Fisting was almost twice as common as being fisted.

What’s the attraction?

Fisting fans call it the ultimate sexual experience, involving intense feelings of trust, intimacy and vulnerability. A hand can be more intense as most cocks aren’t wide or long enough to do what a fist can: fill the rectum, prod the far side or go through the lower colon.

Fisting allows direct stimulation of the prostate (known as the male G spot , or the P spot), the walnut shaped gland inside the arse where the base of the dick ends, below the belly button. Stroking it can give stronger orgasms. Manipulating the prostate can also trigger the desire to piss which some find pleasurable. A fister may be able to trigger an orgasm in the fistee, even though his cock is soft.

Deep fisting

Fisting aficionados say the rhythmic pumping of a hand up and down and around inside the colon is bliss, that no other sexual sensation comes close. In deep fisting the fistee takes the fister’s hand clenched into a fist so it rubs more against the muscular wall of the colon. When done right it shouldn’t be painful.

Hard-ons

When a man’s being fisted it’s usual for his cock to be soft. Even if the fistee plays with it during fisting, it’s unlikely he’d get an erection unless he’s taken a drug like Viagra.

Pushing limits

Fisters can see themselves as a select group of hardcore men marked out by an act that shocks and disturbs the more conventional and less sexually adventurous.

Last review: 25/09/2018
Next review: 25/09/2021