Fucking

AKA: anal, f, to buttfuck, to top/to bottom, screw, shaft, deep plow, root.

Hanky code

Dark blue (or chain) worn:

  • on the left (wants to fuck)
  • on the right (wants to be fucked).

What is fucking?

Fucking involves one man putting his cock into another’s arse and thrusting, usually until he comes.

What’s the attraction?

Fucking allows the prostate to be touched. This is the gland inside the arse where the base of the dick ends, below the belly button. Touching it gives stronger orgasms. Fucking has plenty of symbolic and psychological meaning too, linked to closeness and power.

Closeness

The intimacy comes from having a man inside you or being inside a man, especially if the fucker comes inside the other guy.

Power

Both with animals and humans, a male mounting and/or penetrating another is a potent symbol of domination and submission, and a turn-on for men who get off on this exchange of power.

Taking up roles (top or bottom, active and passive, dom or sub, Master or slave) plays a central role in the sex lives of many men into ‘kink’. This can be either as permanent identities or involve men who switch or flip (change role) depending on the scene or man they’re with. That said, fucking doesn’t necessarily feature in the top/bottom play of many men.

Last review: 25/09/2018
Next review: 25/09/2021